Monday, September 1, 2014

Psychics and Relationships

Psychics and Relationships


Greetings and welcome!

The Love Crisis Survival Guide is written as a spiritual yet practical approach to self-empowerment in the relationship process. Some parts of this book may feel a bit uncomfortable to read, because I don’t sugarcoat information that could be perceived by many as bitter. I will always encourage you to take responsibility for the reality that you create.

I have come to understand a great deal about relationship crisis resolution as a result of my experience counseling many thousands of people as a professional psychic since 1993. Although my job dwells outside the lines of what appears “normal” to mainstream society, it has allowed me to tap into the core of humanity - the most interconnected area of the human psyche and condition.

When I began providing psychic readings, it didn’t take long to notice that nearly everyone who consulted me used the same lower-level strategies to deal with drama in their relationships. Although there were always some differences in the details surrounding issues in my clients’ love lives, most of them were asking the same questions, doing the same things and ending up with the same results. The common questions I have always had from clients are:

“What is he or she feeling about me and our relationship?”

“When will I hear from him or her?”

“When is he/she going to call?”

“When will I see him or her?”

“Will we ever be a ‘real’ couple, and when (There are variations of this question, such as: “When will he/she commit?” or “When will he propose?”)?”

I feel I must start off by addressing the fact that, ‘WHEN’ is truly a four-letter word of the worst kind when it comes to getting readings. Psychic energy comes from a non-linear place, outside of the space-time continuum.

We as people have the free will to make choices and take actions that can alter the time it takes for a situation or event to transpire. Therefore, it is my opinion that psychics are not able to provide consistent, accurate timeframes for their predictions.

Many people call psychic readers for a ‘fix’ of hope when they are not getting it directly from their love interest. When a client feels emotionally neglected by someone significant, the psychic can appear to be the best candidate to assure them that they are loved by the object of their affection, or that the ex boyfriend or girlfriend is coming back.

Many clients develop an addiction to psychic readings, hoping that the information revealed will calm their tumultuous emotions or fill the proverbial hole in their hearts. The sense of peace obtained by the client usually fades very quickly when doubt starts to kick in again shortly after a reading. They seek further solace by getting more readings. In extreme cases, clients may call psychics several times a day, even if they have accumulated many thousands of dollars in debt.

These clients end up losing more than just vital amounts of money in their quest for privileged information. They also end up with so many different opinions circulating around in their heads as a result of all the different psychic readings they have received, that it becomes increasingly difficult to be at peace with themselves long enough to discern the inner voice of their own intuition.

Most psychics that I know personally only want to see the client succeed and find happiness in their lives. Granted, there are always deceptive and manipulative bad seeds in the bunch that give the rest of the psychic community a bad name. Psychics who have integrity are still only able to actually help clients who are willing to remain teachable.

Psychic consultations can be used as a powerful tool if they are obtained with enlightened intentions by a seeker who understands the limitations of a reading. However, there is a common misconception in this society that the purpose of a psychic is simply to predict the future in the way of fortune telling. While genuine psychics can see the short-term outcome of some situations that have already been set in motion, we are not able to see forward and backward through time as if we were omnipresent.

Common ground between me and other readers I respect is that we strive to help the client stretch the understanding of their role in the creation of their lives. In fact, many successful spiritually based psychics that I know make it a point to educate their clients about the fact that predictions are unreliable. Our futures are not set in stone, because the universe allows us to alter the course of our lives with the power of our thoughts, decisions and actions.

Psychics who are spiritually inclined have an ability to rise above the petty aspects of life and see pieces of a greater picture, or a ‘Grand Design.’ We are sensitive to the directions that someone’s personal life path may take based on the decisions they have made and are currently making. We see and feel patterns in people’s lives that may restrict their potential success, and we have an awareness of how to help the client obliterate them.

While therapists generally get their knowledge from textbooks, spiritual psychics receive information from ‘the other side,’ ‘spirit guides,’ ‘the source’ or ‘the light.’ Psychics can tap into their gifts naturally, and also through meditation and psychic development techniques. Some psychics excel with the aid of divination tools like the tarot, runes, the I Ching, palmistry, numerology, tea leaves or astrology. Other readers prefer to use their empathic or clairvoyant skills when conducting sessions. Each psychic has their own style when it comes to deciphering and delivering his or her readings.

Psychic abilities are no different than gut instincts; a sixth sense, discernment, mother’s intuition, or any other more generic term that describes an inner knowing that transcends logic. However, just because everyone has the potential to give and receive psychic energy does not mean that they can often interpret the vibrations accurately, or that they have the gift of being able to communicate in a way that can relay the information to others in a helpful manner.

Please ‘take what you want and leave the rest’ in terms of what I write here. I cannot be held responsible for the use or misuse of the information I provide. 

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Chalcopyrite / Peacock Ore

"What I dream of is an art of balance, of purity and serenity devoid of troubling or depressing subject matter - a soothing, calming influence on the mind." - Henri Matisse

In this post, I bring you a photo of one of my personal Peacock Ore stones. Chalcopyrite (also known as Peacock Ore), can be used for chakra balancing and clearing, psychic development and energetic grounding.

I provide stone recommendations and crystal readings as part of my psychic services.

Sunday, August 31, 2014

Pedestals in Love and Friendship

Pedestals in Love and Friendship

By: Mystikka Jade

In love, friendship and other associations, pedestals can interfere with the authenticity of a connection. If someone has placed us on a pedestal, it’s pretty much a guarantee that we will fall from grace soon enough. Those who we place upon one will inevitably do so as well.

People often ‘pedestalize’ those they do not truly KNOW, but feel drawn to through some form of admiration or attraction. The pedestal creates a shallow, inhospitable environment for a connection to thrive in, because it perpetuates illusion.

I don’t believe that pedestalizing translates into expecting perfection out of another, or being blind to their faults. Perhaps we have simply developed, or are currently developing an agenda about what we think their role in our lives ‘should’ be and do not comprehend where the individual naturally fits into the picture of things.

“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” - A. Einstein


If we are feeling let down by a person, it usually means that reality in the moment is clashing with our expectations, or with fantasies that we are attached to.

We may not believe we are expecting too much out of another person, if the behavior, response or emotion we hoping to illicit from them is something that is natural or easy for us to exhibit in our own lives. However, despite our inherent one-ness, we are all wired a bit differently and what comes effortlessly for one person may feel like an insurmountable obstacle to another.

If you find you are placing someone on a pedestal and you have any true interest in them, perhaps consider seeking to understand the real person rather than some speculated idea of who you think they are. Connections with positive substance develop as a result of bonding through shared experiences and a mutual willingness to understand one another beyond personal projections and assumptions.

Getting to know someone is a continuous process that need not be rushed; people who have been in different types of relationships for decades are still learning new things about their partners, friends, etc.

If someone is pedestalizing you, you can confront them about it. Just keep in mind that you may or may not be able to change their perception. You are only responsible for dismantling and clearing the pedestals from your own side of the road. To do so, instead of looking up to someone or down at them, look at this person directly with an open mind and heart.

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The Outcome You Want

Although I sometimes read for 'lost cause' situations that simply are the way they are, without much hope of change except through a miracle of Divine Intervention - there are also times when possibility brews and positive shifts are more readily accessible.

If you call me wanting a certain outcome to a situation, I will psychically look for  the closest resemblance to your desire that exists in the realm of probability (we can't always get exactly what we want, exactly the way we want it... because you know... 'life isn't fair' and all that jazz - actually it's more complicated than that - and would be a topic for a whole different post) and I will describe certain steps that can help you achieve this desire.

In order to get what you want (or the closest resemblance to it), there will be certain pertinent actions to take as well as certain behaviors/actions you will need to avoid. 

If I tell you that a prediction is contingent on you following a certain protocol - and avoiding certain courses of action... and then you go and exhibit the behaviors that I have warned against and explained will CANCEL OUT the predictions I gave you -- please do NOT hold me accountable when you don't get the outcome you wanted.

Just a little tough love from me to (some of) you... <3

- Mystikka

Psychic Healing and Protection Hypnosis

The following is a complimentary Psychic Healing and Protection Hypnosis I recorded shortly after getting the Hypnotist Certification. The sound quality is not great, since it was recorded on a cheap headset. Since then, I have invested in a better microphone and hope to be recording some new mp3's soon.

Butterfly Circus - A Short Film


At the height of the Great Depression, the showman of a renowned circus discovers a man without limbs being exploited at a carnival sideshow, but after an intriguing encounter with the showman he becomes driven to hope against everything he has ever believed.

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Director: Joshua Weigel
Writer: Joshua Weigel & Rebekah Weigel
Producers: Joshua Weigel, Rebekah Weigel, Angie Alvarez
Executive Producers: Jon & Esther Phelps, Jason Atkins, Nathan Christopher Haase, Bob Yerkes, Ed Vizenor & Nathan Elliott
Director of Photography: Brian Baugh
Production Designer: Yeva McCloskey
Editor: Chris Witt
Cast: Eduardo Verastegui, Nick Vujicic, Doug Jones, Matt Allmen, Mark Atteberry, Kirk Bovill, Lexi Pearl, Connor Rosen
Original Score: Timothy Williams (Composer)

All credit for this video is © to its respective owners.

Read The Love Crisis Survival Guide - FREE - Limited Time Offer!

If you or someone you know is dealing with heartbreak or heartache of some sort, such as a break up, unrequited love, long distance relationship, or dating someone who is married, my book The Love Crisis Survival Guide offers tools, insights and guidance that can help guide you through. And now, you can read it for free online - for the first time ever! $14.99 value. 

Here's how...

On Smashwords - where I sell The Love Crisis Survival Guide in ebook format -  I have set the sample portion to show 100% of the ebook. So when you preview it, you get to read the entire thing without buying the book

If you're interested in the paperback version, it's available on Amazon.

Please pass this on to anyone it might help. I will change the Smashwords settings soon and the preview sample will no longer be at 100% - meaning - the ebook will no longer be free.

For now, enjoy!

Love and blessings,
Mystikka Jade

More Information:

The Love Crisis Survival Guide is a condensed, informative manual full of emotional support and healing advice for women who are suffering from a broken heart or other frustrating circumstances in a relationship. The Love Crisis Survival Guide will tell you how to: *Re-spark your individual, creative passions. *Rediscover your strength, power and individuality. *Understand why your partner gives mixed messages, and learn what you can do about it. *Set real boundaries in your relationship. *Know the difference between lower level love strategies that fail and higher level strategies that work. *Understand and deal with a love triangle. *Handle someone who won't commit. *End the cycle of getting involved with the 'wrong people.' *Salvage a failing relationship. *Get your ex back if he truly loves you. *Discover the real potential of an internet romance. ***and much more***